"women can't do math," "women shouldn't play video games," "you're going to have kids aren't you?," "don't eat too much or you'll get fat."

You do realize you just named supposed differences between women and men, right? So yes, very much I would like to diminish the supposed differences we have.

More generally, I admit this may be a personal flaw, but I have the easiest time respecting someone when I think of them not as another race, not as female, not as gay, but as a human being.